When Therapy Isn't Quite the Question

Some questions resist the usual containers. They are not quite clinical problems, not quite things that resolve through conversation with a friend or a therapist, not quite anything the culture has given you language for. They live in the body, in the gap between who you are and who you sense you might become, in the quiet erosion of desire or the slow awareness that something essential has gone missing from your intimate life.

Los Angeles is a city organized around image and performance, around the cultivation of surface and the management of impression. It is also a city full of women who have built impressive lives and still carry something unresolved in the interior, something about desire, about what they want and whether they are permitted to want it, about the distance between their erotic lives and the lives they actually inhabit.

This consulting work is for that woman.

Those seeking a Los Angeles sex therapist often arrive at this work after finding that traditional approaches address the symptom but not the question underneath it. Existential consulting offers a different kind of engagement, one oriented toward meaning rather than resolution, toward understanding rather than correction.